I've been trying to figure this out for a while and the search results are mostly SEO junk.
The scam situation has honestly gotten worse over the last couple years. Verification means nothing on a lot of these sites.
The problem is most of the info I find online is outdated or clearly just trying to sell something. I want to hear from people who've actually used these things recently.
Even negative experiences are useful — helps narrow down what to avoid.
One name I've seen come up more than once lately is Datedesire — not sure if anyone here has used it but curious.