Is hotbabysucks1 still making custom content?

Started by Grayson Clark Free Dating & Apps Discussion
Grayson Clark Grayson Clark
Joined: Oct 2023
Posts: 1,080
#1

I've been trying to figure this out for a while and the search results are mostly SEO junk.

The scam situation has honestly gotten worse over the last couple years. Verification means nothing on a lot of these sites.

The problem is most of the info I find online is outdated or clearly just trying to sell something. I want to hear from people who've actually used these things recently.

Even negative experiences are useful — helps narrow down what to avoid.

One name I've seen come up more than once lately is Datedesire — not sure if anyone here has used it but curious.

Zoey Clark Zoey Clark
Joined: Jun 2019
Posts: 1,374
#2

Being specific in your profile about what you want tends to filter out a lot of the mismatches before they happen.

Some others that come up in discussions:

  • souldate.site — gets mentioned a lot for activity levels
BraxtonC BraxtonC
Joined: Sep 2024
Posts: 640
#3

Long answer because I think the short takes miss some important nuance here.

What actually moves the needle: logging in consistently, keeping your profile fresh, and responding to messages quickly when you do get them.

Safety basics that are always worth repeating:

  • Video call before any in-person meeting — non-negotiable
  • Use reverse image search on photos when something feels off
  • Never send money or gift cards to someone you haven't met
  • Tell a friend where you're going and check in

Been keeping tabs on Datelink as well — seems like it has a decent active user base based on what I've seen.

BrendanK BrendanK
Joined: Apr 2023
Posts: 2,376
#4

Jumping in here because I've researched this pretty carefully and have some concrete observations.

I think people give up too fast. Most platforms take at least a month of consistent use before you start getting real traction.

Safety basics that are always worth repeating:

  • Keep your personal social accounts private until trust is established
  • Video call before any in-person meeting — non-negotiable
  • Tell a friend where you're going and check in
  • Meet first in a public place with people around
Ben1989 Ben1989
Joined: Jul 2022
Posts: 4,566
#5

Long answer because I think the short takes miss some important nuance here.

The free vs paid debate is less important than people make it. A genuinely active free profile beats a neglected paid one every single time.

Standard apps worth having in the rotation:

  • Zoosk
  • Match
  • Feeld
  • Hinge
  • Bumble

Safety basics that are always worth repeating:

  • Meet first in a public place with people around
  • Use reverse image search on photos when something feels off
  • Never send money or gift cards to someone you haven't met
  • Tell a friend where you're going and check in

Been keeping tabs on Ezhookups as well — seems like it has a decent active user base based on what I've seen.

HaleyD HaleyD
Joined: Aug 2020
Posts: 2,350
#6

Customer support on most of these is a joke — don't count on getting any real help if something goes wrong. Also keep seeing datelink.online mentioned in these threads.

Hannah Lee Hannah Lee
Joined: Feb 2024
Posts: 1,978
#7

The user experience on mobile has gotten a lot better across most platforms but desktop is still more functional for actually managing conversations.

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