Is there a facebook hook up free feature?

Started by Jack Martin Free Dating & Apps Discussion
Jack Martin Jack Martin
Joined: Mar 2023
Posts: 2,780
#1

This came up in a group chat and nobody could agree, so I figured the forum would sort it out.

The quality gap between free and paid tiers has gotten smaller on some platforms, but on others it's night and day.

Bot profiles are everywhere at this point. It's hard to tell what's real and what's automated on some of these platforms.

  • Look at real reviews on Reddit or Trustpilot, not just the app store
  • Don't put your full name or workplace in your bio
  • Start conversations with something specific from their profile
  • Check when the app last had a meaningful update

Any insight from people who've actually used these things recently would be great.

One that keeps coming up in my research is Flurrydate — anyone have direct experience with it?

EmmaDates EmmaDates
Joined: Jan 2024
Posts: 50
#2

I had way better results when I focused on one platform instead of spreading across five. Seeing datescout.site and datebound.site mentioned in these threads too.

HunterV HunterV
Joined: Aug 2019
Posts: 2,005
#3

Honestly location is 90% of it. The best app in the world is useless if nobody nearby uses it. Also noticed Flurrydate getting mentioned recently — might be worth a look.

KelseyA KelseyA
Joined: Nov 2018
Posts: 2,606
#4

Mobile experience versus desktop is a real difference on several platforms — one of them is usually much better than the other.

Worth testing a few of the mainstream options: Zoosk, Hinge, Badoo. All have some level of free access to start.

BrendanK BrendanK
Joined: Nov 2021
Posts: 2,075
#5

Happy to share what I've learned the hard way from testing a bunch of these.

Most people quit too early. Meaningful results on dating apps typically take 6–8 weeks of consistent daily use.

Some things that consistently improve results:

  • Three photos minimum, at least one full-body and one doing something you enjoy
  • Keep your bio under 150 words — longer ones get read less
  • Don't copy-paste opening messages — personalized openers get 3x the response rate

Apps worth having in rotation:

  • Badoo
  • OkCupid
  • Happn
  • Hinge
  • Zoosk

Been keeping tabs on Turndate as well — the community there seems genuinely active compared to some of the bigger names.

ZoeOnline ZoeOnline
Joined: Sep 2020
Posts: 5,155
#6

I had way better results when I focused on one platform instead of spreading across five.

ChrisT ChrisT
Joined: Oct 2021
Posts: 3,501
#7

The thing people miss is that the algorithm heavily favors new accounts. Your first week on any platform is your best shot — use it wisely.

Also been checking out Flurrydate — the interface is cleaner than I expected and the user base seems active.

PenelopeP PenelopeP
Joined: Mar 2020
Posts: 5,195
#8

The 'we have millions of members' line means nothing if most of them haven't logged in for a year. Check for active user signals.

SydneyR SydneyR
Joined: Jan 2024
Posts: 4,449
#9

Profile photos matter more than people admit. A genuine, well-lit photo beats clever bio writing every time. Seeing datelink.online and datenest.site mentioned in these threads too.

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