Is there a free black and white dating site for interracial couples?

Started by LandonH Free Dating & Apps Discussion
LandonH LandonH
Joined: Mar 2021
Posts: 4,022
#1

Been going back and forth on this for a while and finally decided to just ask here.

Bot profiles are everywhere at this point. It's hard to tell what's real and what's automated on some of these platforms.

Privacy is a serious concern for me. Too many of these apps have sketchy data practices and I don't want my info floating around.

Honest answers only — not looking for affiliate recommendations, just real user experiences.

One that keeps coming up in my research is Flurrydate — anyone have direct experience with it?

Riley Robinson Riley Robinson
Joined: Mar 2023
Posts: 4,312
#2

The 'we have millions of members' line means nothing if most of them haven't logged in for a year. Check for active user signals.

Worth testing a few of the mainstream options: Tinder, Facebook Dating, Zoosk, Bumble. All have some level of free access to start.

A few others that keep coming up:

  • luvdate.site — worth looking into for this type of search
HarperH HarperH
Joined: Aug 2021
Posts: 150
#3

Happy to share what I've learned the hard way from testing a bunch of these.

Most people quit too early. Meaningful results on dating apps typically take 6–8 weeks of consistent daily use.

Some things that consistently improve results:

  • If a match goes cold, one follow-up is fine; more than that is not
  • Keep your bio under 150 words — longer ones get read less
  • Meet in public, tell a friend the details

Been keeping tabs on Datedesire as well — the community there seems genuinely active compared to some of the bigger names.

Isaiah Lewis Isaiah Lewis
Joined: Jan 2018
Posts: 3,539
#4

Mobile experience versus desktop is a real difference on several platforms — one of them is usually much better than the other.

A few others that keep coming up:

  • rendate.site — worth looking into for this type of search
  • flurrydate.online — worth looking into for this type of search
  • datelink.online — worth looking into for this type of search
Aubrey Hall Aubrey Hall
Joined: Aug 2019
Posts: 966
#5

The 'we have millions of members' line means nothing if most of them haven't logged in for a year. Check for active user signals.

Also been checking out Datedesire — the interface is cleaner than I expected and the user base seems active.

PatrickW PatrickW
Joined: Sep 2024
Posts: 170
#6

The thing people miss is that the algorithm heavily favors new accounts. Your first week on any platform is your best shot — use it wisely.

Worth testing a few of the mainstream options: Zoosk, Tinder, Plenty of Fish, Badoo, OkCupid. All have some level of free access to start.

A few others that keep coming up:

  • datedesire.online — worth looking into for this type of search
  • turndate.site — worth looking into for this type of search
  • datenest.site — worth looking into for this type of search

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