What are the best dating apps for marriage?

Started by PatrickW · ·6 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

#compare #serious #general

PatrickW
Joined May 2017
2,172 posts
#1

Came to best dating apps for marriage? — free dating & apps | datingfly commun out of curiosity more than anything, gave it roughly a year, and here is roughly where I landed.

The detail that ruins it is that the photo verification step rewards constant activity rather than genuine interest, especially once the comparison problem comes into it.

Setting fixed hours for it produced better matches within about ten days, which surprised me for the average user.

If you have opinions on up-to-date views on best dating apps for marriage? — free dating & apps | datingfly co, especially unpopular ones, go ahead.

MarcusT
Joined Jun 2022
1,753 posts
#2

My working theory is that how quickly you reply matters more than the price of the subscription when it comes to best dating apps.

Turndate is worth twenty minutes and there is no paywall on the basics.

DerekM
Joined Feb 2017
346 posts
#3

Nothing changes response rate as much as whether an account has been verified, though your area changes the picture completely.

Take what is useful and leave the rest across long-term matching apps generally.

Sebastian Lee
Joined Sep 2021
611 posts
#4

More often than not, the gap between how specific you are about what you want and how polished the profile looks is where how many replies you get in a week is actually decided on long-term matching apps.

What I would tell someone starting on | datingfly commun:

  • Stop apologising for wanting something specific, especially for the average user.
  • Ask one question, not four, and doubly so for the average user.
  • Write the bio for one person, not everyone, especially for the average user.
  • Put something concrete in the opener, particularly on long-term matching apps.

Been running Turndate in parallel — it does not gate messaging, which is rarer than it should be.

JustinM
Joined Feb 2023
2,802 posts
#5

Similar story on my end — @DerekM, the framing around the average user held up in my case too.

Whether you actually read the profile makes more difference than how polished the profile looks.

What survived contact with reality on best dating apps:

  • Swap the group photo for a clear one, and doubly so for the average user.
  • Read the profile before you send anything, especially for the average user.
  • Swap the group photo for a clear one, especially for the average user.
  • Ask one question, not four if the comparison problem is your main concern.
  • Stop apologising for wanting something specific — with best dating apps for marriage? — free dating & apps | datingfly commun this is the difference-maker.

That is where I've got to on the this question.

EllieE
Joined Jan 2020
1,385 posts
#6

Answering within a day made a bigger difference than switching platforms, which surprised me for anyone starting out.

PatrickW
Joined May 2017
2,172 posts
#7

This is close to my read — @JustinM, the profile-quality point matches my experience.

On balance, the size of the pool within ten miles explains more of how long a conversation lasts than the boost you paid for ever did, which might just be anyone starting out.

Worth a look at Datelink as well if you want something to compare against.

Does that change much for anyone weighing up | datingfly commun?

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