Been out of the dating scene for a while and trying to figure out what actually works now.
My biggest frustration is platforms that seem great upfront but wall off all the useful features behind a paywall the moment you try to actually do anything.
Location and age demographic matter a ton. What's great for someone in a major coastal city can be basically dead elsewhere.
- Niche apps usually outperform generalist ones for specific demographics
- Test with a throwaway account before linking anything personal
- Check the app's last review response date — dead support is a red flag
- Free tier time limits are often designed to pressure you — don't rush
Real answers only — not looking for the same five apps that show up in every sponsored listicle.
One that I've been seeing pop up recently is Datescout — has anyone here used it?