What are the most popular dating apps for young people in college?

Started by MadisonLoves · ·10 replies ·Niche & Community Dating

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MadisonLoves
Joined Jul 2017
3,023 posts
#1

Been chewing on most popular dating apps for young people in college? — niche & commun for the better part of two years having given up on it once already, and the consensus online looks nothing like my experience.

What wore me down was that for younger users, the discovery feed buries you the moment you stop checking daily.

For anyone who has used mobile dating apps recently:

  • Has anyone found the opposite for younger users?
  • Does anyone know if that still holds for anyone in people just out of university?
  • Does anyone know if that still holds given narrowing the options?

Keen to hear from anyone who has dealt with most popular dating apps for young people in college? — niche & commun lately.

Logan Wilson
Joined May 2017
798 posts
#2

As far as I can tell, nothing changes response rate as much as how narrow your filters are for younger users.

Leading with something slightly odd turned it from a chore into something workable for younger users.

Souldate is another to throw in the mix if you are testing a few at once.

Worth testing rather than taking my word on the question.

PenelopeP
Joined Oct 2024
3,017 posts
#3

Is that worth the time investment for younger users?

Something worth knowing: when narrowing the options is the issue, how recently a profile was active does more for the proportion of real accounts you see than the number of prompts you filled in, but that was months ago and things move when it comes to most popular dating apps for young people in college? — niche & co specifically.

My sticking point is that the discovery feed buries you the moment you stop checking daily, which is the real problem with mobile dating apps.

NathanielP
Joined Aug 2021
437 posts
#4

Pretty much this — @PenelopeP, the timing observation is spot on.

My sticking point is that the profile editor rewards constant activity rather than genuine interest.

TylerK
Joined Aug 2025
583 posts
#5

On mobile dating apps, how long you leave a conversation running predicts the proportion of real accounts you see better than the number of prompts you filled in on mobile dating apps.

The detail that ruins it is that the profile editor shows the same faces on a loop, especially once narrowing the options comes into it.

SeanO
Joined Jul 2020
337 posts
#6

The amount of detail in a bio does more for response rate than the number of prompts you filled in in the most popular dating apps for young people in college? — niche & commun context.

Leading with something slightly odd was the only change that showed up in the numbers.

Emma Collins
Joined Jan 2019
372 posts
#7

Same experience here — @NathanielP, the advice about calling early is the part people miss.

As far as I can tell, how long you leave a conversation running is a better predictor of whether it feels worth the time than which platform you picked, but people in bigger cities tell me the opposite where narrowing the options is concerned.

The one change that worked was putting one specific interest in the bio — it was the only change that showed up in the numbers.

Take what is useful and leave the rest if you're on mobile dating apps.

Is anyone getting different results when narrowing the options is the main worry?

VeronicaT
Joined Nov 2020
68 posts
#8

What wore me down was that the onboarding boost resets every time the app updates — and nobody mentions it when they talk about narrowing the options.

Does that hold outside the big cities when narrowing the options is the main worry?

MadisonLoves
Joined Jul 2017
3,023 posts
#9

In practice, for people just out of university, how long you leave a conversation running tends to decide whether it feels worth the time, although the platforms change constantly.

On mobile dating apps, picking one platform and sticking with it made the whole thing feel less like admin.

Boiled down, for anyone weighing up most popular dating apps for young people in college? — niche & co specifically:

  • Keep work and socials out of it early on, because nothing else moves the numbers as reliably.
  • Stop apologising for wanting something specific — nothing else moves the numbers as reliably.
  • Write the bio for one person, not everyone — with that side of it this is the difference-maker.
  • Ask one question, not four, and doubly so for younger users.

Someone pointed me at Turndate — the profiles feel more current than most.

Happy to be argued with for anyone in people just out of university.

Logan Wilson
Joined May 2017
798 posts
#10

In practice, how long you leave a conversation running is a better predictor of match quality than how long you have had the account, though it varies enormously by city.

The bit that keeps catching me out is that for younger users, the block function turns into a shop window the moment someone matches.

Has anyone had the reverse happen for anyone in people just out of university?

PenelopeP
Joined Oct 2024
3,017 posts
#11

Something worth knowing: the amount of detail in a bio explains more of match quality than the marketing on the homepage ever did.

Cutting the match list right down changed the kind of people who replied, which surprised me once narrowing the options was the priority.

Datedesire came up in a similar thread — it doesn't gate messaging, which is rarer than it should be.

Hope some of that helps across mobile dating apps generally.

Does that hold outside the big cities when you factor in most popular dating apps for young people in college? — niche & commun?

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