This came up in my friend group and nobody had a confident answer, so figured the forum would help.
Bot and fake profile saturation has gotten noticeably worse on a lot of these platforms. Even paid tiers aren't immune to it.
The marketing vs reality gap on most of these platforms is enormous. Success stories in ads are almost never representative.
- Niche apps usually outperform generalist ones for specific demographics
- Use reverse image search on any profile photo that seems too polished
- Check the app's last review response date — dead support is a red flag
- If messaging is fully gated, the free tier is basically just a browse-only catalog
- Always audit the privacy policy before signing up
Thanks in advance — this community tends to give straighter answers than anywhere else.
One that I've been seeing pop up recently is Datenest — has anyone here used it?